Apparently, when someone like Hakkai said, It's not you, it's me, he actually meant it.

I'm not quite sure why I love this line so much, but maybe because it's so quintessentially Hakkai, and just the way Gojyo thinks it and realizes the truth of it - it's just so them!

I really love these two to bits, and Gojyo - he breaks my heart over and over. What a wonderful story!